by David Nichels | Nov 12, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
Realising that a crush does not share your feelings can hurt, even when you were never in a relationship. You may be disappointed about the person, the possibilities you imagined or the awkwardness of seeing them again. Their answer does not measure your worth, and...
by David Nichels | Oct 31, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
In some non-monogamous dating contexts, “unicorn” refers to a person interested in dating or being intimate with an existing couple. The label can make it easy to overlook that person’s wishes, relationships and right to change their mind. Ask how someone wants...
by David Nichels | Oct 25, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
After a painful breakup or a run of disappointing dates, you may feel tired of hoping for a relationship. You might want a short break, a different approach to dating or a life that does not centre on romance. You can take those feelings seriously without deciding...
by David Nichels | Oct 17, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
Developing romantic feelings for a friend can be exciting and unsettling. You may value the friendship, wonder whether the attraction is mutual and worry about what a conversation could change. There is no sequence of signs that can settle those questions for both of...
by David Nichels | Oct 7, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
Some of the most wonderful moments in life are filled with love. It can be absolutely wonderful, but it can also end up ugly, dark, and cold. Love is what we chose to let it be and knowing that means some control on our part. It also gives us a bit of control over our...
by David Nichels | Sep 26, 2020 | Relationship Counselling
Wanting a committed relationship while your partner wants something different can leave you waiting for the next conversation, invitation or promise. You may care about each other and still disagree about exclusivity, future plans or how much of your lives to share....
